I learned that change comes and change comes when it is good and ready to. Sometimes it happens with months or even years of preparation. Other times it comes at you with very little advanced warning. Bam. It hits you upside the head and leaves you dazed and wondering what the heck just happened to your life. What am I going to do now? How do I proceed? What is going to happen now? Is it a good change? Is it a bad change? I need a minute to process what is going on and what I should do next.